In a long time relationship, romance fades away and things become boring.
Just the other day one of my clients told me his spouse told him he isn’t romantic, so he contacted me for tips.
Love thoughts heat up romance. And romance fires up love. Here are few romantic tips:
1. Say to your love when you awake in the morning: “What can I do for you today that will make your life easier and less stressful?” Then do it.
2. Leave a love note on the bathroom mirror or bathroom door.
3. Write a love letter- a real love letter and send it via post. Here’s a simple start: “I love you for a million reasons, here are the top three.”
4. Send flowers or chocolate to his or her office for no reason other than to say “I love you.”
5. Set aside time to give the gift of listening. Make a date if you must, in your own home or at a quiet little place in the neighborhood for a drink and just listen to each others thoughts.
6. Remember when he or she says, “I wish I had one of those” and then, if it’s affordable – buy it for no reason other than to say, “I love you.”
7. Find a picture of the two of you smiling happily, frame it or put it up on the fridge with a note that says, “I love to see us happy.”
8. Serve breakfast in bed
9. Leave a single rose on the bed or chocolates under the pillows – as they do in grand hotels.
10. Find a funny – laugh out loud – card and mail it. Cards are fading out which shouldn’t be.
11. Go to the movie, sit in the back row and touch each other and kiss wildly.
What are the advantages of bringing romance into your life?
1. You will feel healthier because you will sleep better.
2. Romantic thoughts will stir up sexual feelings that help give your immune system a boost.
3. You will smile more often through the day and your joy will be contagious.
Love is life. If you miss love, you miss life.” Leo Buscaglia Quotes
